In the twilight hours of most nights, I lay in my bed and think about work. My obligations, my expectations. If you have the kind of brain that never turns off, you know that every day you're on the cusp of burning out.
Here's how to keep on keeping on when you don't feel like you have anything left in the tank.
Exhaustion is something that happens to all humans. And you have to deal with that. You're not the energizer bunny and that's okay.
First thing's first: You must recognize you have a limit.
I spent a lot of time tip-toeing around the fact that I was human. In college I thought I was a machine. I didn't need sleep, I didn't need friends hell...I didn't need anyone. My idea of "productivity" was to push my limit as far as it could go without dying.
And it nearly killed me.
Once I really looked at why I was so tired it helped me get the support and rest I needed.
It's hard when you're young and hungry for success. You want to be the best. You want to make everyone proud, but that shouldn't be at the expense of your health.
Then, force yourself to take a break.
When you are on the verge of burning out everything isn't working.Things get harder
Do not work like you're a robot.No matter how indestructible you feel, you have to take breaks.
Okay, you're exhausted, you've taken a break and still, you know you're totally burnt out. What now?
Drop the work and do something for pure joy.
Safety isn't attractive for those who want to transcend normal and make something amazing, but it's necessary.If you're falling all the time it becomes harder and harder to get back up. You will burn out.
So when you feel like you're hitting your breaking point, whatever you love can kick in and save you.
Whether it's reading, writing, looking at gossip magazines or just sleeping. Doing something for pure leisure can really help with burning out. It's like a charger of sorts.
In college, when my schedule got really hectic I would take one hour per day to do something I really loved. I'd use my break to play the guitar, draw or do some free-writing. It opened my mind.
The act of doing something you love will free you from the sense of falling, and will ultimately become your safety net.
Although knowing your limits, taking breaks and re-charging don't necessarily play into everyone's big plans, they are necessary measures. We have to take time to recognize our limits.
Humans have expiration dates. And as much as we don't want to confront that concept: it is the truth.