Listen up ladies! I truly believe that every woman has a beauty queen inside... if some jerk breaks your heart, here's what to do... I'm not saying to permanently abandon your regular style but for the next week or 2 take a few extra minutes on your hair and makeup, wear your prettiest "girly" or "sexy" clothes and no matter how hard it is, act like you don't miss him one bit...it didn't phase you one bit. Us guys have huge egos... its going to drive him insane! Give it a try...who knows, maybe it will help you feel better faster too.