I had some pretty lousy dates....even back in the days when I assumed I was a straight girl! Since I've come to realize that I'm pansexual, its gotten harder to find someone who will accept me for who I am instead of judging me by my sexuality. But I've learned that it may be hard to land someone who cares about personality and how their partner treats others more than labels and all that other nonsense, but when you do meet that person they're usually worth the wait. If you have someone who loves you for your heart instead of your parts, they're definitely a keeper because they're such a rarity.