It took Amber sooo long to write this song:
“Yeaaah, love sucks!!! That song’s been sitting with me for five years. Funny story about that song, the producer Gen, who is my singing coach and basically my mentor for everything, he actually wrote this song in 2011 or 2012 and he said he was going to trash it. We actually had to change the song three to four times before it is what it is today. He didn’t want to be on it, but I said, ‘You have to be on it! Everyone thinks we sound so good together.’ We originally recorded the demo to [f(x)song] “Goodbye Summer” together. But me and Gen both suck at relationships, and I’m very cautious when it comes to relationships.” — Amber(Billboard Interview)
She also says that she takes relationships really seriously, and if others dont feel the same it really hurts.
“I’ll say, I’m picky. I’m a very all-in personality, and that’s the reason I am picky because if I date you that means I want to marry you, I want to spend my life with you. I remember it took me five years to get over one of my exes. It’s not something we talk about a lot in the industry and it’s not something people see, but I’ve been an emotional wreck. I’m a softie. But when I get broken up with, I learn a lot about myself.” — Amber
How does she define love?
“Define ‘love’? The reason why I ask is because after one of my relationships, I was like ‘This is it’ and I held onto it for a very long time until I found the next contestant – or I should say next victim, that’s a fun way to say it. But I think, every time I’m in a relationship the definition of love changes. The first time I said ‘I love you’ to someone, I was 16. Um, yeah, it sucked. But the definition of love changes and it changes from 16 to 25.”— Amber