I heard a young boy saying that he was shy and attractive. He was saying the bad looking kids who are not shy bring in girls. That made me think not about looks, however about shyness. It is not that just men are shy. Females may be shyer. Test yourself if you are looking in the incorrect instructions to learn why you are not getting a great date?
You might be thinking of different reasons and attempting to get more suggestions from buddies about how to get a great date. Is your shyness not the cause? Please test yourself now. Are you comfy approaching anyone of opposite sex? Can you confidently stroll towards a man/ lady and introduce yourself? Can you give physical signals indicating your interest? Or you do not raise your eyes if you like someone?
What if someone approaches you? Will you enter simple discussion or keep quiet thinking what to say- tongue-tied? Do you feel confident about yourself? How do you rank your personality? If you are shy with persons of opposite sex, did you try to find out the factor? Have you talked about with friends? Are your friends likewise shy or positive and easy going? Did you request for any suggestion about how to stop being shy?
A lot of us are shy which makes us miss lot of opportunities to fulfill persons of opposite sex and develop relationship. Any person who is shy will have trouble getting a date. You have to break the shyness and talk. Absolutely nothing will occur except the very best. The worst that can occur is a no. However that occurs with everybody. Why not stop being shy and win hearts?